"The Facts of Life"

11 December 2010

My freshman year Advanced Composition Professor handed out an article for each of us to read and respond to for homework. Entitled “The Facts of Life,” the article, written by Pema Chödrön, who is a fully ordained Tibetan Buddhist nun, explains three main principles from the teachings of Buddha, “impermanence, egolessness, and suffering or dissatisfaction. Briefly, impermanence is the concept that “everything is in process” and “nothing is static or fixed,” egolessness encourages constant flexibility and curiosity in personal identity, and the theory of suffering/dissatisfaction is that in order to see the good, there must also be the opposite, bad.   
Reading this article, I realized that these are principles I learned growing up, and currently apply to my life, especially as a person with close ties to many people in the military, including my father and my best friend. The first principle, impermanence, was particularly relatable; nothing is permanent in the military lifestyle – location, housing, friends, jobs, or the status of world politics. In the article, Trungpa Rinpoche stated, “We are always in transition, if you can just relax with that, you’ll have no problem.”
In addition to impermanence, awareness of suffering/dissatisfaction is the other most prominent concept I found myself relating to my life. Ms. Chödrön relayed what Suzuki Roshi taught her, which was “to accept that pain is inherent and to live our lives from this understating is to create the causes and conditions for happiness.” In the last year, my best friend, Kyle, was shot while deployed to Afghanistan, and another friend, Nico, was severely injured by an improvised explosive device; it was difficult, but I also had the joy of welcoming Kyle home and supporting Nico in his recovery. I know I can’t control the uncontrollable; I can only control my reactions, and that made being strong and supportive much easier.
            In short, I found Pema Chödrön’s article interesting, as she explained some principles that I found easy to relate to my life. She also provided insight into the teachings of a world religion, Tibetan Buddhism, which I admit, I don’t know much about. Gerry Spence once said, "I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief." 
 

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Fort Pipestone

12 August 2010

Across from the Pipestone National Monument, is Fort Pipestone. It's a full-size replica of a fort that houses a museum and a gift shop. The gift shop sells local items including handcrafted American Indian items, ceremonial pipes, pipestone crafts, and other gifts and souvenirs. During the summer, there are events held within the walls of the fort. I remember having a buffalo burger for the first time there one summer many many years ago. My memories of the fort also include a covered wagon.



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Pipestone National Monument

While in Pipestone, my mother and I made a quick stop by the Pipestone National Monument. We were on our way to see my grandmother. It was nearing sunset, and I have been here many times before, so we didn't get many photos this time. We did, however, see a wild turkey and her chicks in the field.



The Pipestone National Monument is open to visitors year-round and there is a small fee required for entry, but it includes access to the Visitor's Center, the Circle Trail, and the Three Maidens. The National Monument allows visitors the ability to explore cultural and natural resources unique to the area. Specifically Pipestone itself. On your visit to the park, you can visit active quarry pits where the traditions of American Indians are carried on through quarrying pipestone.

Local flora, including numerous varieties of flowers and grasses, surround the quarries in the tallgrass prairie native to southern Minnesota. You can enjoy them as you walk along the Circle Trail. Along the trail are historical markers, quartzite rock formations, and Winnewissa Falls. Finally, you can enjoy a picnic near the Three Maidens rock formation. My sister and I have photos from previous visits of us on and around these rocks - we change and get older, but the rocks remain steadfast and stately as always. (The photo below is from a trip a few years back. Taken at the Three Maidens)



For more information about the Pipestone National Monument, please visit:
http://www.nps.gov/pipe/index.htm

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Gas Station Acquaintances

11 August 2010

As for the other gas station encounters, on the first day we stopped to refuel in Sheridan, Wyoming. A lady randomly declared to me that she was a blood donor. All I could think was "Why is she telling me this?" when I remembered I was wearing a blood donor t-shirt from the Spokane blood bank! I'll write more on being a blood donor later.

The other two were on a trip to Montana just a few days before the big trek across the country. A man in Missoula, Montana wanted to know if there was ethanol in the gasoline. It turns out he is a corn farmer from Iowa and wanted to be sure to use products his industry produces. The other, also in Missoula, Montana, wanted to know how to get to Starbucks, which was funny because it was literally next door to the gas station.

Missoula's Gas Station & Starbucks (Google Maps)

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Little Yellowstone

Alexander Ramsey Park has been called the "Little Yellowstone of Minnesota." The park, located in Redwood Falls, my father's hometown, encompasses 219 acres and is the largest municipal park in Minnesota.

1930's Civilian Conservation Corps shelters and bridges provide an architectural accent to the park's natural beauty, which includes the picturesque Ramsey Falls. The park also has campground facilities, four miles of paved hiking rails, a catch and release trout stream, and a zoo, making it a focal point for events and summer activities.

I visited the park with my dad before we drove back to Pipestone. The views throughout the park are beautiful. While standing on the bridge above "Redwood Falls" we watched a fish try to climb the ladder that bypasses the dam.



I walked along the path to the other side of the park, while dad moved the car. He and the rest of the family had spent time in the park the day before while we were up at the mall. I took my time and took in the little details, like all of the bees in the flowers.

Dad met up with me again by a meadow where we saw a bunny. We also heard a pileated woodpecker and were trying to find it amongst the tree branches, but didn't have any luck.

We walked up to one of the shelters and took in the view from above the trees. The Redwood River is 127 miles long and is a part of the Mississippi River's watershed, via the Minnesota River. The reddish bark of the region's dogwood trees is believe to be the source of the river's name.

The beautiful Ramsey Falls


We finished our visit with a quick hello to the animals in the small zoo at the park, which features buffalo, elk, deer, prairie dogs, as well as species of upland game and waterfowl.

One Mall to Rule Them All?

10 August 2010

In the United States, Mall of America definitely could live up to that statement. I could tell you all about our trip, but MoA's video called Mall of America in 60 seconds does a much more efficient job:


Lori, Nicole, and I brought Nicole's girls with us on July 18th for the MoA experience. We drove up to Bloomington after a giant family breakfast in the hotel, and spent the entire day at the mall. We visited the aquarium first, then headed to the heart of the mall to "Nickelodeon Universe," where we enjoyed every roller coaster and thrill ride in the park. We rode many of them more than once. The five of us girls had a great day together!

The Aquarium














Nickelodeon Universe 







The Lego Store 













Family Reunion

"The Land of 10,000 Lakes" is also the land of my parents' families. The main reason for our mid-July departure from Spokane was the family reunion in Spicer, Minnesota on July 17th.

The three of us, Mom, Dad and I, drove from Mom's hometown, Pipestone, Minnesota, north to Dad's hometown, Redwood Falls, Minnesota, on Friday. My Dad's brother and sister and their families all booked rooms at the same casino we'd be staying at, Jackpot Junction. 



All five families arrived Friday night. My Aunt Noreen & Cousin Lori, Cousin Nicole and her kids, joined us for supper at Dari King. Later, my Uncle "Buzz" and Aunt Norma, Cousins Brynn and Mark and their kids, arrived from Illinois. It was great to see everyone there, but the main event was the next day. 


Saturday, we all drove up to Spicer. The owner of Mel's Sports Shop, Greg Melges, hosted the event at his house on Green Lake. I had the opportunity to meet many people I'm related to on my father's side of the family, including a few I had met on Facebook before the event. Weather that day was wild. There were severe thunderstorms, tornadoes (not affecting us, but close by) as well as beautiful sunshine.


Melges Family Members

Working on a family tree of the people who were there on Saturday.

Dad, Uncle "Buzz," and Aunt Noreen

The calm between storms

Lightning Storm back in Redwood Falls
After the event, our group of families went back to Redwood Falls for the night. My cousin and I explored the casino floor and spent some time together after we got back before we called it a night.


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Welcome fellow adventurer! I'm Gayle. It's a pleasure to cross paths with you. I am excited about my journey, and invite you to come along. I'm always busy with a fun adventure. Currently, I am a Sports, Entertainment & Events Management major at Johnson and Wales University in Charlotte, North Carolina. And of course, gaining experience, volunteering, and enjoying the beautiful southeastern United States.

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